Relationships

After deploying a project to work with thousands of women on voluntary basis. Here is the secrets why women should never chase after men; chasing blue.

Chasing Blue

1. He is not simply your type

“ I invested my mind, expectation and all energies I had in him” Said Angie. “But, he never bought me a flower”.

Angie, not her real name, met the man with all qualities a woman needs. And she made a huge mistake investing too much on someone who didn’t find value in her. Yes, men have standards. They only need some kind of women to keep their ego checked. While this is a secret to many, I will tell you why these kind of men are not your type.

First, he won’t invest in you. He will be busy on his phone or laptop doing nothing, just to escape setting eyes on you. In fact, he will pile up laundry to keep you held up, including his underpants! And lastly, he become protective of his privacy, he won’t ask how you slept last night.

• You will never be included

Am not saying in his business trip to Hawaii. Hawaii isn’t a business hub, I mean, just in his very small indoor chores, he won’t ask you for a hand. He become very conservative. Chasing after men makes them more reliable to themselves and will always find way to escape from you, your presence and turn down your company. They often have reason, probably to buy more time for his phone to charge a little bit.

• He will be busy all the time

Not even himself, he will roll up tired, not show up on date earlier. He becomes dresses unkept. This is not because he can’t make to brush his tooth, he is just tabling an excuse not to get closer to you. Fill you with emptiness. Just like that.

Well, I personally don’t blame men. Our world has become so mundane with women of poor quality than France.  Men look for energy they don’t have, women who will make them more acceptable in social classes that foster their growth. Women who are responsible.